Posts by Anders Andersen

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And then it hit me: we were abused

by Anders Andersen in

from a psychcentral (run by mental health professionals): a familiar item on a list of 7 types of parental abuse :.

spiritual abuse.

has the child experienced:dichotomous thinking – dividing people into two parts: those who agree with the parent and those who don’t.

Anders Andersen

From a Psychcentral (run by mental health professionals): a familiar item on a list of 7 types of parental abuse :

Spiritual Abuse. Has the child experienced:
Dichotomous Thinking – Dividing people into two parts: those who agree with the parent and those who don’t. The parent makes fun of, belittles, and shows prejudice towards other’s beliefs.
Elitism – The parent refuses to associate with people or groups they consider impure or unholy.
Submission – Requires that the child completely adopts the parent’s point of view. There is no room for differing opinions or questioning their authority. Name calling, chastising, and the silent treatment are common maneuvers into compliance.
Labeling – The child is taught at people who don’t comply with the parent’s beliefs are seen as disobedient, rebellious, lacking faith, demons, or enemies of the faith.
Public Performance – Demands perfection and happiness from the child at all times. Religious activities such as attending church have extreme demands, excessive expectations, and rigidity.
Legalistic – Strict adherence to the parent’s rules and regulations are commanded with absolute statements about insignificant issues such as hair color or clothing.
Segregation – Estrangement from extended family members and friends outside of the religion. This includes shunning, alienation, or persecution.
Blind Obedience – Is expected from the child to the point the child is expected to worship the parent.
Abuse of Authority – Parents use their spiritual authority as justification for why the child should completely submit.
Fraud – Parent engages in criminal misconduct or covers up the transgressions of others in the name of their religion. This includes covering up sexual abuse, physical abuse, financial felonies, and misdemeanors.
0-5 items in any section may indicate that a person is being groomed for abuse at a later time. Be mindful of any further escalation.

So what's your score in the 'religious abuse' section? We're you abused?

Do you abuse your own children with regards to religion? (Yes lurkers I'm talking to you).

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US vs THEM

by Anders Andersen in

i still remember that feeling.

thank god it's gone for good.

i used to be part of us witnesses.

Anders Andersen

Thanks for the kind words guys.

Now I'm gonna go and pick up my car :-p

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US vs THEM

by Anders Andersen in

i still remember that feeling.

thank god it's gone for good.

i used to be part of us witnesses.

Anders Andersen

I still remember that feeling

Thank God it's gone for good

I used to be part of US Witnesses

Fighting against evil

Set apart from THEM worldy people.

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My journey into reality began just shortly after I started at a new employer

Then, at a table in a restaurant I looked at my colleagues and realized

There was no longer an artificial divide

They were no longer THEM

And I was no longer part of US.

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Tonight there was a reunion of my previous workplace

People who don't know I'm not a Witness anymore

Looking around I realized for the first time (again)

They are human just as much

And just as worthy

And just as nice

As I had believed only US to be

The divide was gone.

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After dinner few continued the party in town

I joined them without hesitation

Went into a casino

'You don't gamble do you?'

Played 10 bucks for fun

And did not miss that awful feeling

US vs THEM

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Left the car where it was

Reason may be obvious ;-)

Walking home

Past people partying

Passed the place I had my first work Christmas dinner

Passed the Kingdom Hall

Looking back with no regrets

No remorse

No anger

No feelings whatsoever

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Traced my steps from many a meeting

Hall to home with lovely wife

Hoping one day she will join me

Without her thinking I am one of THEM

Without that artificial divide between her and me.

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Circuit assembly in a couple of hours

Not for me though

No thank you sir

Just my wife and her parents

And all my late friends

All of US

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Btw not that it matters but I won 10 bucks ;-)

And in case you didn't notice I had a couple of beers and I'm not really a famous poet (but I could have fooled you guys, right?)

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New light in this weeks WT?

by Indian Larry in

anybody have any ideas where they are going with the "new light" they have been pushing last week and this week?

for instance in this weeks study article one section reads:.

in years gone by, we believed that jehovah became displeased with his people because they did not have a zealous share in the preaching work during world war i. we concluded that for this reason, jehovah allowed babylon the great to take them captive for a short time.

Anders Andersen

I think the scripture mentioning "the two witnesses, who were killed, and then miraculously come back to life" (not an exact quote) was supposed to have fit into 1914-1919.

By now I wouldn't even be surprised if they say JW didn't preach = 2 dead witnesses fulfilled and at the same time claim they did preach = not in Babylonian captivity.

As long as the two contradicting statements are not in the same paragraph the dubs won't notice anyway...

:-D

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New light in this weeks WT?

by Indian Larry in

anybody have any ideas where they are going with the "new light" they have been pushing last week and this week?

for instance in this weeks study article one section reads:.

in years gone by, we believed that jehovah became displeased with his people because they did not have a zealous share in the preaching work during world war i. we concluded that for this reason, jehovah allowed babylon the great to take them captive for a short time.

Anders Andersen

I can somewhat understand the logic of coming to 'a new understanding' sometimes. But this is plainly rewriting history.

Old light: during WWI we didn't preach. This is evidence of being captured by Babylon
New light: during WWI we preached zealously. This is evidence that we were not captured by Babylon.

So did they preach or not? Is the new evidence made up, or the old evidence?

How is it even possible that they get new information about their own history, especially now that everyone who actually had first hand experience is dead?

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A quick Biblical question....

by dubstepped in

my wife and i were talking about how religions claim to be directed by god, yet god never seemed to let any of them know about the danger of sexual predatora to children.

the it hit me, does the bible say anything on the subject?

is there a thou shalt not diddle kids scripture?

Anders Andersen

Apparently king Ahaz was less than 12 years old when he became father of Hezekiah.

Maybe that tells us something about the ancient customs regarding sex and children?

Watchtower doesn't seem to view it as problematic.

http://wol.jw.org/nl/wol/dsync/r18/lp-o/r1/lp-e/1200000144#h=4-4

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There is some pretty incredible people out there in the "world"

by LevelThePlayingField in

i am a fan of a video came called simcity and other building games like cities skylines and the such also legend of grimrock.

anyway, as i watch others plays these games on youtube i have noticed that there are some pretty intelligent people out there.

how others can solve the puzzles way better than i can on legend of grimrock and how they can build cities in ways that i had not thought of at all.

Anders Andersen

I think the current GB are not so smart at all. They are like spoiled heirs squandering away the fortune their (grand)parents Russell, Rutherford and Knorr amassed by being smart.

Yet even these guys....Look it may be smart to make money of off gullible people. But being só gullible that you even believe your own fairy tales...that's an incredible level of stupid.

As drug dealers say: Never use your own product ;-)

Edit: I think all smart stuff in JW land (like the different money grabs) were not dreamt up by the GB, but by the lawyers. Possibly not even JW but worldy sharks.

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Looking for a Book on Evolution

by Saethydd in

i am wondering if anyone is aware of a book or series of videos designed to explain evolution to creationists, (specifically the jw strain of creationism if possible) without being patronizing or overly confrontational.

i would like to have something to recommend to people who challenge evolution, but i know that the sources which convinced me would turn most of them off because of the confrontational and at times condescending tone in which it's presented.. some examples of what i'm looking for would be someone who doesn't claim evolution is a fact until after they have presented all of the evidence that makes it a fact and also have addressed as many counter-arguments as possible..

Anders Andersen

I liked Evolution for Dummies.

https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Dummies-Greg-Krukonis/dp/0470117737

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The re-writing of digital history....JW.org style. Interesting clip.

by stuckinarut2 in

we all know that one of the major advantages the society now has with everything being on its official website, is the ability to quickly change content when they desire.. so older articles that show them to have made mistakes, are simply re-written or edited...or even just deleted!

simple!

"nothing to see here...carry on".

Anders Andersen

@smiddy,

That's because JW are an irrelevant fringe sect. Why should other people even bother?

For a JW, JW are the center of the universe. In a JW mind, religious leaders and heads of state alike are discussing JW activity on a daily basis.

In reality, almost nobody knows them. Those who do, don't know anything beyond 'no Christmas' or 'no blood'. Which also sadly means they don't know the real nature of this cult.

How different would the world be without JW? Not at all (apart from some tens of thousands of families having different relations as most of us experience personally).

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Every Country and Land... Except Oman

by ILoveTTATT2 in

jw
friends

so the other day someone asked me what use was it to make the list of countries in which there have been reports.... well... to know that, as far as i can tell, there has never been preaching done in oman.. it has never appeared in any report, and the reports go back to 1926!.

all other countries and lands have appeared, but not oman.. so there... first useful fact about the watchtower that we can get from 90 years of data..

Anders Andersen

Interesting!

You checked for Masqat or Maskat as well? (I guess so)